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Honor Society® Expert FAQ

How do you request a professional reference?

Request a professional reference from someone who knows your work and can describe it accurately. Ask whether they feel comfortable providing a positive, specific reference before sharing their contact information.

Ask permission and provide useful context

A former supervisor, internship mentor, faculty project adviser, or volunteer coordinator may be appropriate, depending on the employer’s instructions. Send the role description, your current résumé, and a reminder of work you completed together. Confirm the person’s preferred contact details and any availability constraints.

Adaptable message: “I’m applying for a coordinator role and wondered whether you would feel comfortable serving as a reference. Our event project involved the scheduling skills this position requests. I can send the posting and my résumé.” Give an easy way to decline and thank the person regardless of their response.

Your next steps

  • Check the employer’s required reference types.
  • Ask permission and share relevant background.
  • Notify the reference when contact is likely and send thanks.

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