When people hear the word autism, they sometimes automatically think about limitations, challenges, or things a person cannot do. But when I hear the word autism, I think about a part of who I am, not everything I am. My name is Zymirr Fraley, and I have Autism Spectrum Disorder (ASD). However, there is something I want the world to understand: I am not my diagnosis. I am a young man with dreams, talents, goals, and a future filled with possibilities.
Growing up with autism has not always been easy. There have been times when I have struggled with understanding certain situations, communicating my feelings, adjusting to changes, and navigating relationships with others. Sometimes, people misunderstand me because I may think, learn, or respond differently. What they do not always realize is that being different does not mean being incapable.
Throughout my educational journey, I have faced challenges that tested my confidence, patience, and determination. One of my most difficult experiences happened during my freshman year of high school when I experienced bullying. Eventually, the situation led to a confrontation that resulted in my suspension and a change in my educational environment. That experience affected me academically and emotionally, but it also taught me valuable lessons about controlling my reactions, making better decisions, and understanding that one difficult moment does not have to determine the rest of my life.
Instead of allowing that setback to define me, I made the decision to keep moving forward. Getting back on track academically was not easy, but I continued working toward my goals. I learned that progress does not always happen overnight and that sometimes success means getting up and trying again, even when things become difficult.
One of the greatest parts of my high school experience has been my involvement in the marching band. For six years, music has given me an opportunity to express myself, build confidence, develop discipline, and become part of something bigger than myself. As a sousaphone player with the Lucy C. Laney High School Pride of Augusta marching band, I have learned the importance of teamwork, dedication, and perseverance from all of my instructors. When I put on my band uniform and step onto the field, I am not focused on my diagnosis. I am focused on the music, my bandmates, and giving my very best.
I have also been involved in the Auto Club and Kappa League for three years. These organizations have helped me develop leadership skills, responsibility, and a greater understanding of the importance of serving others. They have reminded me that I have something valuable to contribute to my school and community.
Another important part of my journey has been my family, especially my mother. Being raised by a strong, loving single mother has taught me what perseverance looks like. She has always encouraged me to believe in myself, even during moments when I questioned my own abilities. She has reminded me that having autism does not mean I have to place limits on my dreams. Her love, sacrifices, prayers, and encouragement have helped me become the young man I am today.
Now, as a member of the Class of 2027, I am preparing for the next chapter of my life. Receiving college acceptance letters has been one of my proudest accomplishments because each letter represents more than an opportunity to continue my education. It represents the obstacles I have overcome, the hard work I have put in, and the people who believed in me along the way.
I know that life will continue to bring challenges, but I also know that I am capable of learning, growing, and accomplishing great things. Autism is part of my story, but it does not get to write my entire future.
To other young people living with autism or any diagnosis, I want you to know that you are more than a label. Your journey may look different from someone else's, and your progress may happen at a different pace, but that does not make your accomplishments any less meaningful. Do not allow the opinions of others or the challenges you face to convince you that your dreams are impossible.
I am Zymirr Fraley. I am a son, a brother, a musician, a leader, a student, and a future college graduate. I have autism, but autism does not define everything I can become.
I am not my diagnosis. I am my determination, my growth, my accomplishments, and the future I am working hard to create.
